
If youâre feeling a bit stuck on niche direction right now, youâre not alone. And if building an OnlyFans tips menu feels weirdly high-stakesâlike youâre trying to put a price on your personality, time, and energy all at onceâthatâs also completely normal.
Iâm MaTitie, an editor at Top10Fans. A few years ago, I briefly joined OnlyFans myself. That short window was enough to see something creators rarely get credit for: people arenât only paying for content. Theyâre paying for clarity (what they can ask for), connection (being noticed), and consistency (knowing what happens next). A good tips menu quietly does all threeâwithout you having to over-explain yourself in DMs.
This piece is for you, Fe*gHuang: a fashion stylist building a niche audience in the UK, with an advertising/PR brain that wants structure, and a sensitive-but-strong heart that doesnât want to people-please your way into burnout. Letâs make your tips menu feel like a calm, confident âthis is how I workâ, not a chaotic âplease pick meâ.
What an OnlyFans tips menu is really doing (beyond earning tips)
A tips menu is a mini product catalogue subscribers can understand at a glance. But strategically, itâs doing four jobs:
- Reduces decision fatigue for fans (they stop asking âwhat can I get?â).
- Protects your boundaries (you donât negotiate your comfort in the moment).
- Turns attention into predictable income (small purchases that stack).
- Signals your brand (especially important when your niche still feels fuzzy).
That last one matters for you. As a stylist, you already have a strong âtasteâ identity, even if your OnlyFans niche isnât fully nailed. Your tips menu can lead your niche rather than wait for it to appear.
Start with your âmenu moodâ: the vibe you want to be known for
Before prices, decide the mood of your menuâbecause it determines what sells naturally and what drains you.
Here are three creator-friendly menu moods that work well for fashion and styling:
1) âStylistâs Studioâ (clean, premium, confident)
- Outfit breakdowns
- Lookbooks
- Personal styling voice notes
- âGet dressed with meâ clips
- Wardrobe audits (photo-based, not live)
2) âPlayful Closetâ (flirty, bright, frequent)
- Quick polls: âPick my outfitâ
- Short try-on clips
- Rating games (outfits, accessories, styling dilemmas)
- Casual chat add-ons
3) âAfter-Hours Editorialâ (more intense, higher ticket)
- Editorial sets
- Custom styling fantasy (storytelling + outfit reveal)
- Longer videos, more polish, fewer buyers, higher prices
You donât have to lock into one forever. But choosing one for this month will make your menu coherentâand coherence sells.
Build your menu around three spend types (so youâre not relying on one thing)
Think of your tips menu like a balanced rack:
A) Low-cost âimpulse tipsâ (fast, frequent, low effort)
These are the ÂŁ5âÂŁ15 items that fans buy because it feels easy.
- âOutfit of the dayâ pic set
- âChoose my next lookâ poll vote
- 1â2 minute voice note: âstylist pep talkâ
- âBehind the scenesâ phone clip
Why it helps you: It creates income without requiring you to be emotionally âonâ for long.
B) Mid-tier âconnection buysâ (your best margin)
These are ÂŁ20âÂŁ60 items where fans pay for closeness and attention.
- 10-minute chat bundle (time-boxed)
- âName shout-outâ in a video
- Personalised styling suggestion based on a selfie (no body critique, just silhouette/colour notes)
- âFlirty PG-13 storytellingâ with an outfit reveal
This aligns with a wider truth: money spent on OnlyFans often isnât about explicit content; itâs about company and connectionâfast replies, warm attention, and feeling seen. You can offer that without offering more than you want to.
C) High-tier âcraftâ (fewer sales, higher respect)
These are ÂŁ80âÂŁ250+ items you only offer if they feel worth it.
- Custom video with clear limits (length, revision policy, delivery time)
- Editorial mini-shoot pack
- Monthly âstyling museâ membership add-on (limited slots)
Important: High-tier only works when your boundaries are crisp. If youâre even slightly likely to people-please, keep the top tier simple and limited.
A tips menu structure that feels clear (and wonât trap you in DMs)
Hereâs a layout Iâve seen work consistently for creators who want calm, not chaos:
1) Quick Tips (instant)
- 3â6 items
- Low prices
- Minimal customisation
2) Personal Touch (limited)
- 3â5 items
- Time-boxed
- Very specific deliverables
3) Customs (by request, with rules)
- 2â4 items
- Clear âstarting atâ pricing
- Clear boundaries and turnaround times
4) Boundaries (short, kind, non-negotiable)
- âNo meet-ups.â
- âNo requests involving anyone else.â
- âNo blackmail/pressureâinstant block.â
- âI donât do X. Please donât ask.â
Youâre not being cold. Youâre being professional.
Pricing without spiralling: pick an âanchorâ and work backwards
Creators often underprice because theyâre trying to be âfairâ. But fair to whoâa stranger, or your future energy?
A simple way to price your menu:
- Pick an anchor item you feel proud of (mid-tier).
- Example: âPersonal styling voice note + 3 outfit ideasâ at ÂŁ35.
- Price quick tips at 20â40% of that.
- ÂŁ7, ÂŁ10, ÂŁ12
- Price high-tier craft at 2â6x of that.
- ÂŁ90, ÂŁ120, ÂŁ200
This keeps your menu internally logical. Fans donât need to agree with every priceâthey just need to understand it.
Make your menu sell itself with âmicro-copyâ (your PR degree will love this)
The difference between a menu that sits there and a menu that sells is usually one sentence per item.
Use this formula: What it is + how it feels + what they do next
Examples for a fashion stylist vibe:
- ââ âPick My Outfitâ poll â you choose tomorrowâs look. Tip, then Iâll DM the options.â
- âVoice note pep talk â quick, warm, and personal. Send me your mood, Iâll hype you up.â
- âMini lookbook â 10 pics, one theme (office siren / weekend street / soft luxe).â
This reduces awkward back-and-forth and helps shy buyers follow through.
Boundaries that donât sound harsh (but still work)
You can be soft and still be firm. Try language like:
- âI keep customs within my comfort zone. If I canât do a request, Iâll suggest a close alternative.â
- âFor customs, I need payment first and I donât offer refunds once Iâve started.â
- âI reply fastest during my posted hoursâthank you for being patient with me.â
If youâve been letting go of the need to please everyone, this is a powerful place to practise. A tips menu is you choosing structure over stress.
Safety and scam-proofing: build it into the menu (especially in February)
Around Valentineâs Day, scams and catfishing attempts tend to spike across social platforms. The simplest protection is to make your process boringly consistent:
- Keep payments on-platform.
- Donât move to random apps âfor privacyâ.
- Donât click unknown links from âmanagersâ, âpromo teamsâ, or âcollab scoutsâ.
- Donât accept pressure tactics like âIâll leak if you donâtâŠâ
This isnât about fear; itâs about staying steady. If someone wants to support you, theyâll respect your process.
If you want, add a single line to your menu image:
- âFor safety: payments and deliveries stay on OnlyFans.â
It filters out time-wasters without you doing emotional labour.
Discovery is changing: donât let your menu be invisible
One frustrating reality is that OnlyFans itself doesnât offer strong built-in discoveryâso creators are always looking for ways to be found. Thatâs why tools and directories keep popping up. For example, Techbullion reported on the launch of OnlySearch, a search and discovery engine aimed at helping creators be discovered beyond the platformâs limited search experience.
What this means for your tips menu:
- People may arrive colder (from search/directories/social), not already attached to you.
- Cold visitors need instant clarity: âWhat do I get here?â and âHow do I interact with her?â
So, think of your menu as part of your onboarding:
- Pin it.
- Mention it in your welcome message.
- Keep it readable on mobile (big text, short lines).
A fashion-stylist-only tips menu (example you can adapt)
If you want something niche-safe, stylish, and scalable, hereâs a draft menu you can tweak:
Quick Tips
- ÂŁ7 â âOutfit voteâ (poll access + result reveal)
- ÂŁ10 â âAccessory pickâ (bag/shoes/jewellery choice)
- ÂŁ12 â âMirror clipâ (15â30 sec outfit tease)
- ÂŁ15 â âMoodboard dropâ (3 inspo pics + why I chose them)
Personal Touch
- ÂŁ25 â âName shout-outâ in my next styling clip
- ÂŁ35 â âStylist voice noteâ (2â4 mins, personalised)
- ÂŁ50 â âMini styling planâ (send 1 selfie + 3 words: vibe/occasion/colour; I reply with 3 outfit ideas)
Customs (limited slots)
- From ÂŁ90 â âCustom outfit reveal videoâ (3â5 mins, one theme, one revision max)
- From ÂŁ120 â âEditorial setâ (10â15 pics, themed)
- From ÂŁ150 â âStory + styling fantasyâ (scripted tone agreed first)
House Rules
- âKindness only. Pushy messages get ignored.â
- âNo off-platform payments.â
- âI donât do anything that crosses my boundariesâthank you for understanding.â
Notice whatâs missing: anything that forces you into constant live availability. You can still be warm and responsive without being swallowed by it.
The âmenu rhythmâ that keeps you consistent when your niche feels wobbly
When youâre unsure of direction, consistency is what builds confidence. Try a simple weekly rhythm:
- Mon: Outfit vote (low effort, high engagement)
- Wed: Drop a mini lookbook teaser + point to menu
- Fri: One personal-touch item spotlight (voice note / mini styling plan)
- Sun: Quiet day or admin (protect your energy)
Your menu becomes the backbone. Your niche becomes the outfit you changeâwithout changing the store.
Where creators accidentally sabotage their tips menu (so you can avoid it gently)
- Too many items. If you feel overwhelmed reading it, fans will too.
- Everything is custom. Customs feel flattering, but they can drain you fast.
- No delivery expectations. Add âwithin 48â72 hoursâ to reduce anxiety on both sides.
- Apology pricing. Low prices donât always bring kinder buyers; sometimes they bring more demanding ones.
- Unclear boundaries. Clear boundaries attract respectful fans.
If any of these hit a nerve, it doesnât mean youâve done anything wrong. It just means youâre ready to run this like a business that also protects your nervous system.
A gentle note on judgement and headlines
Youâll see sensational headlines about OnlyFans creatorsâsometimes about looks, sometimes about drama, sometimes about people judging how creators make money. It can feel loud and personal, even when itâs not about you.
When that noise creeps in, I like one grounding thought: your menu is your definition of what you do. Not the internetâs. Not a headline. Not a stranger in your DMs.
And if you ever decide to evolveâtowards more PG-13, more educational, more fashion-forward, or towards new business directionsâthatâs valid too. Creators leave, pivot, and expand all the time.
If you want, I can help you pick a âmenu identityâ in 10 minutes
Hereâs a quick self-check. Choose the option that feels like relief:
- A: âI want fewer messages, higher quality buyers.â â premium, limited personal-touch items.
- B: âI want more engagement to figure out my niche.â â polls, votes, low-cost menu, lots of feedback loops.
- C: âI want to feel more in control.â â time-boxed chat bundles + strict customs rules.
Pick one for the next 14 days. Youâre not marrying it. Youâre testing it.
And if you want extra reach beyond your current circles, you can lightly explore creator-friendly discovery options and communitiesâand yes, youâre welcome to join the Top10Fans global marketing network when youâre ready.
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