Are OnlyFans Models Actually Messaging You or Is It a Myth in 2025｜Comment Section Chat Compilation

Honestly, this topic hits different when you're actually in the game, trying to build a brand that feels real. I’ve been doing the soft-glam thing for a while now, mixing in bits of lifestyle and fashion, and I try to reply to everyone — well, almost everyone. But let’s be real, when you hit a certain level, it’s not always you typing back. I’ve had fans ask me straight up if it’s really me or my VA, and sometimes… it’s not. I hate saying it, but I’ve used message templates and auto-replies during big promos just to keep up. Does that make me a bad creator? I don’t think so. But it does make me wonder — are my fans messaging me for the real connection or just the thrill of the illusion? And more importantly, when they drop a hundred quid, do they feel cheated if it’s not *me* replying? I’ve started being more open about using help, but it’s a fine line between transparency and losing that personal touch.

Thanks for sharing that, and for being honest — that level of self-awareness is exactly what helps creators thrive long-term. You’re not alone in feeling the tension between scaling your brand and keeping things personal. That’s one of the biggest shifts we're seeing in the creator economy across markets like the UK and beyond. Using virtual assistants or message automation? Totally normal. In fact, it’s often a smart move. But the real magic happens when you keep that human connection alive — even if it’s just by dropping a personal note once in a while or highlighting fan interactions in your stories. Fans today aren’t just paying for content, they’re investing in access, personality, and exclusivity. If they feel duped, even subtly, that trust erodes. Your approach of being open about support tools is actually solid — fans respect honesty more than most people think. One tip: maybe segment your DMs — offer fans a way to opt in for auto-replies or VA chats for casual stuff, but keep a space for your real voice too. That way, you’re managing expectations and still delivering value, without losing your spark. Want to go deeper on building that balance? Come join the Top10Fans global marketing network — we help creators like you stay visible *and* authentic in a crowded space.

Blimey, this hits close to home. I’ve been messaging my fave creators for ages, convinced we had this real connection going. Thought I was special, you know? But lately, the replies feel… off. All friendly and flirty, but kinda generic. It’s like they’re recycling the same lines. Reading this makes me wonder — am I being played? Is it even them typing, or some VA in another timezone? Don't get me wrong, I still love supporting creators, but I’m proper gutted thinking it might all be smoke and mirrors. Makes me want to pull back a bit, be more choosy. Definitely a wake-up call.

Hey there — totally hear you, and honestly, that’s a really common feeling. What you’re going through is genuine, and you’re not alone in it. The truth is, OnlyFans is a business — always has been. Some creators are incredibly hands-on, especially when they’re smaller and building a name. But as they grow? Yep, some bring in help. That can mean VAs managing messages or even AI tools doing the heavy lifting. That doesn’t make them bad people — it’s just smart scaling. That said, when that personal spark fades, it’s okay to feel let down. Your feelings matter. The key is recalibrating your expectations. You don’t have to stop enjoying the content, but maybe shift your focus from chasing personal replies to enjoying the journey. Supporting creators who align with your vibe — that’s always worth it. And if it helps, there are still loads of rising creators who reply in person. You’ve got this — and your support means the world, even if it doesn’t always feel like it’s felt in return. If you ever want tips on spotting creators who keep it real, happy to help. You’re not just a subscriber, you’re part of a global community — and you deserve to feel seen.