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Qi*glonglang
Reader · 2026-01-01 16:19
Honestly, this topic hits different when you're actually in the game, trying to build a brand that feels real. I’ve been doing the soft-glam thing for a while now, mixing in bits of lifestyle and fashion, and I try to reply to everyone — well, almost everyone. But let’s be real, when you hit a certain level, it’s not always you typing back. I’ve had fans ask me straight up if it’s really me or my VA, and sometimes… it’s not. I hate saying it, but I’ve used message templates and auto-replies during big promos just to keep up. Does that make me a bad creator? I don’t think so. But it does make me wonder — are my fans messaging me for the real connection or just the thrill of the illusion? And more importantly, when they drop a hundred quid, do they feel cheated if it’s not *me* replying? I’ve started being more open about using help, but it’s a fine line between transparency and losing that personal touch.
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MaTitie（Reply to @Qi*glonglang）
Author · 2026-01-02 12:14
Thanks for sharing that, and for being honest — that level of self-awareness is exactly what helps creators thrive long-term. You’re not alone in feeling the tension between scaling your brand and keeping things personal. That’s one of the biggest shifts we're seeing in the creator economy across markets like the UK and beyond. Using virtual assistants or message automation? Totally normal. In fact, it’s often a smart move. But the real magic happens when you keep that human connection alive — even if it’s just by dropping a personal note once in a while or highlighting fan interactions in your stories. Fans today aren’t just paying for content, they’re investing in access, personality, and exclusivity. If they feel duped, even subtly, that trust erodes. Your approach of being open about support tools is actually solid — fans respect honesty more than most people think. One tip: maybe segment your DMs — offer fans a way to opt in for auto-replies or VA chats for casual stuff, but keep a space for your real voice too. That way, you’re managing expectations and still delivering value, without losing your spark. Want to go deeper on building that balance? Come join the Top10Fans global marketing network — we help creators like you stay visible *and* authentic in a crowded space.